Producer Sara-Mae on Bibi does Soho show

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We’re delighted that Sara-Mae is getting a chance to natter with queen of the airwaves Bibi Lynch on her marvellous Soho Radio show.

We’ll be chatting about season 1: The Sugar Baby Confessionals, plus developments with season 2, so look out for that.

Also on will be BBC Radio presenter Jo Good talking about her new podcast Dogs and The City, and comedian Phil Nichol will be discussing his Your Wrong tour.

Also… be sure to prime yourself by listening to the hilarious episode of Bibi’s Metro podcast Good Sex Bad Sex with ex-sex worker and comedian Miranda Kane. It features sugar baby heroine Ruby indulging in a titillating (or tintillating? You’ll have to listen to the podcast to get that in-joke) tête-à-tête –

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The Sugar Baby Confessionals listeners have spoken!

Our listeners hail from all over the globe…

We’ve been finding the stats on who is listening and where endlessly fascinating. Currently, we have almost 2,000 downloads!

Just think… 2,000 strangers are involved in Ruby’s story. The bulk of the listeners are from the US and UK, naturally, but it truly boggles the mind to imagine, for example:

25 beguiling Belgians

9 fiesty French people

7 naughty Nederlanders

11 saucy Swedes

7 intelligent Israelis

18 svelte South Africans (these are probably members of my extended family though, to be fair)

In the whole entirety of South America, there are a mere 6 elegant Ecuadorians listening.

Why just Ecuador? We like to picture one particularly perspicacious person hearing of it somehow and telling 5 of their friends they just have to hear all about Ruby’s high jinks. What a lovely thought.

Having said that, we wish the single Romanian person listening would shift themselves a bit more to recommend it. It’s far too dreary picturing them in their solitary enjoyment. Share it with your friends, people of the world!

It’s also been lovely to get feedback from our listeners as to why they’ve enjoyed the pod:

Lucinda Sieger (incidentally a gorgeous and talented Glasgow born, international singer/songwriter, and host of the arts event: Lucie’s Lounge)

 

Love it, well written, presented and thoroughly enjoyed. Never heard of a sugar baby before.

 

Jé Maverick (poet and writer)

 

I used to go out with a poly girl, so it raised a lot of interesting emotions/memories…[Polyamory] really wasn’t for me. I have many disagreements with a lot of the premises/arguments adhered to in the domain of polyamory. Not ethical issues, more issues of practicality. I think there is a lot of dogmatic thought within polyamorous circles, which makes it interesting to reverse engineer and scrutinize, but perilous to be involved with if it really isn’t your bag.

 

The uber glamorous poet Bette O’Callaghan, whom we’ve long admired from afar, was kind enough to chat to Sara-Mae about her thoughts on the podcast. (Do yourselves a favour and watch her amazing videos. She is wonderful, fearless and a has a damn fine way with words.)

Reproduced with permission from Bette.

One thing we really enjoy about this process is that we’re inciting conversations about the more challenging themes explored in the podcast. Issues around fidelity, monogamy and modern love can be highly troubling to many people.
Bette took the time to ponder the underlying complications becoming a sugar baby might throw up to someone who, like Ruby, is married.

 

The podcast was well done with the mix of your interjections and the music…In so far as the topic… is a successful marriage really built on sex? I am more of the school that too many people are sucked into what I refer to as ‘the Saturday night rip off’ which is a fairy tale expectation of romance. There is nothing in life that is all good all the time. It is clear to me, from all of the people who have spoken to me regarding their relationships, that in every relationship, one person loves the other more than the other. That person tends to give up more.

 

Is Ruby’s husband, FP, giving up more? Listen to The Sugar Baby Confessionals here, to make your own judgment.
Bette finished her review on a beautifully poetic note:

 

A more cogent and brief review of the podcast, herewith.
Delusions of grandeur
are inherent in youth
it’s the nightmare
of the tangled bed sheets
the result of reckless actions
that haunts one in old age”

Look out for Bette’s performances and be sure to buy a collection of her poetry if you’re lucky enough to see her.

Here are some of Bette’s videos to enjoy:

Press ‘Pause’ for Easter break

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Fable Gazer friends, we would like to wish you all a fabulous Easter break with lots of adventure, fun and masses of chocolate.
Like you, we will be taking a short and much-needed time out. Although we will be putting the icing on the egg of our new #sugarbabyconfessionals episode – which will be ready for hatching next week!
If you haven’t yet listened to Ruby’s real-life Sugar Baby Confessionals and you’re looking for a sexy, intriguing new #podcast, please relax in your favourite banana lounge, put on your headphones, and listen in.
Binge the whole thing from episode 1, here:

 

You can find the Sugar Baby Confessionals podcast on iTunes

Listen to our previous Episodes over the Easter break!

Ladyfingers and Pound Cake Galore!

In Episodes 3 (Ladyfingers) and 4 (Pound Cake – Part 1) of The Sugar Baby Confessionals, we’re diving right in to the nitty gritty of what it means to be a sugar baby!

 

 

 

 

 

 

Ladyfingers

How does Ruby, our resident sugar baby, prepare for her encounters with her sugar daddies? Where does she find the energy to satisfy multiple sugar daddies, Favourite Person, and still chase after her kids? Hint: it’s got to do with dietRuby also very frankly discusses the changes her body went through with each of her pregnancies, how she started to love her body again (and shares her body lovin’ mantra!), and how she experienced a sexual renaissance. She takes us through her pre-date rituals, and we hear about her first encounter with The Brit.

We also learned a little more about mangrove swamps than we were banking on…

Pound Cake – Part 1

How much do sugar babies charge, and is it really all about the money? Why be a sugar baby? We talk about the logistics around discussing money or “arrangements” with the sugar daddies, and how Ruby and her friend Madelaine feel about accepting money in exchange for their company and yes – their bodies.

Ruby is also talking about going exclusive with The Brit (yup, the sex is that good!).

Tell Us What You Think

You can catch up on all current episodes of The Sugar Baby Confessionals on iTunes or on Libsyn (and pretty much anywhere else you like to get your podcasts). If you like what you’ve heard so far, then we’d really appreciate it if you could take a sec to rate, review, and subscribe. You could help us get on the New and Noteworthy page of iTunes, and help us win fame and glory. Or at least infamy…

And don’t forget, you can also connect with us on Twitter and Instagram, where we post inappropriate pics and other fun stuff.

Enjoy!
xo

Season 1: episode 1 of The Sugar Baby Confessionals is out now!

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Our very first podcast episode is out (semi)officially now!

We’re so excited about it, as we’ve been working on it for over two years.

Here’s what The Sugar Baby Confessionals is all about:

What if your best friend – your best, married friend – embraced the sugar baby lifestyle – not by necessity, but by choice? Sara-Mae Tuson’s best friend, Ruby, did just that. Sexy? Scary? Judge for yourself.

In the Sugar Baby Confessionals, the girl talk gets candid as Sara-Mae and Ruby talk about love, sex and life as a Sugar Baby – the pleasures and the pitfalls. You’ll meet Ruby, her friends, her Sugar Daddies and her husband. We reveal all in The Sugar Baby Confessionals.

In the first episode we meet Ruby, a newbie to the sugar baby lifestyle. We learn more about what a sugar baby is (someone who gets money or gifts from older men in exchange for sex), how Ruby got involved as well as what the terms ‘vanilla’ and ‘hot-wiving’ mean. Ruby gives relationship and sex tips, treating us to a funny story about role-playing with her husband. And most excitingly…we meet our first sugar daddy: Mankini.

We’d love it if you commented on Twitter (@fable_gazers ) or email us on fablegazers@gmail.com.

Enjoy!